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Sometimes your route needs to be recalculated
The road you were on took a turn you weren't expecting, now what?
Finding a laugh when it's the very last thing you want to do
Grief is a heavy path, but we can still find reasons to smile. Join our supportive community as we embrace laughter through the tears.

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Who am I and why am I here?
Hi! Thanks for stopping in! My name is Brenda and I became I widow in 2024. It's not what I expected. It's not what I wanted, but it's what I got. Grief touches every single one of us without exception at some point in our lives. I'm hardly alone in that. But what I am hoping to do here is something that not many people might think of doing in their grief and that is to find something to smile or even laugh about. I wrote a book entitled, "Wait...what?" as an exercise in catharsis, you know, a way to get things out of my system and well, it took its own path. It's free for you to read and maybe it'll help you along your own journey. And feel free to share your stories as well in the blog section!
From the Blog
Read my most recent updates and thoughts on finding light in life's heaviest moments. I invite you to join the journey and explore new stories every week.
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There's a lot we can talk about! If you're in need of a speaker for your event, please consider an encounter with this grandma in motorcycle boots! But rest assured, I take the topic of grief very seriously. Want further information? Please complete the form below and I will respond to you myself as soon as possible. Thank you!